I know a lot of couples are celebrating the “Marry Month of May” judging by the wedding invitations I see around.
Why May? I don’t know, maybe because it is summer and some people can go on vacation leaves to attend weddings during weekdays. Maybe because it is “Fiesta” in some places and it is a perfect excuse to do a double celebration.
Some couples spend way too much for their wedding but do not spend time to reflect on how they will live as a married couple. More than a hundred thousand pesos for the photographs. Glitz and glitter during the wedding: lavish cakes that are not eaten, not-to-be-outdone wedding favors that are at times impractical, THE gown with crystals, fancy hard to pronounced food on the menu and majestic flower arrangements.
How far do couples spend to outdo others who were married before them to set the new standard as THE wedding to be talked about until a newer and grander one comes along.
This was “hammered” in our heads by our Christian Living teachers before: “Focus on the marriage and not on the wedding ceremony”. I find it somewhat funny how that comes from the nuns who are also married, not to their husbands, but to the church.