Being a parent is difficult but being a parent to a child with special needs could be even more difficult. I hope I do not give the wrong impressions here.
Parenting a child with special needs can at times of a cycle of daily struggles about food, routine, fears, anxieties, learning difficulties, change of setting, varying moods, behavior changes and dealing with more than stares from strangers.
On top of that are therapy schedules, school placement and almost unlimited financial obligations among other things.
Alternative career options are not even in the list of what to achieve with some of them. Sad but true.
I once discussed these things with a caregiver about a child, my student, that she is taking care of. She said the parents are so worried that among all three children, this child with special needs has the heftiest life insurance quotes.
She further explained that the parents thought it would make them feel that at least, they have taken cared of the financial aspect in the future. This is the greatest worry that parents of children with special need have: WHAT HAPPENS TO MY CHILD WITH SPECIAL NEEDS WHEN I AM GONE?
As a special education teacher, my unsolicited advise would be to look for the best doctor and therapists who will work best with your child. As parents, you should also know and understand the condition of your child and always be there, as much as possible, to guide the child in the direction you and your team has set.
As parents, be on the lookout for tell-tale signs of your child being “off” the developmental milestones.
Remember that Early Intervention definitely works.