Posted by teacherjulie @ 7:25 pm

Every Saturday, participants post photos based on a theme. The theme for this Saturday is FAMILY.

The topic of family is a topic very close to the heart of everyone. Family does not mean just blood relations like parents and their children or the extended family members. People close to our hearts and people who we can rely on when times are both good and bad are considered as family.

My husband and I live close to his family home. My parents live a little far from us so we are not able to visit them as often as we would have wanted to. When the children have school break, they spend time with my parents.

The road below is the road that brings us closer to my family.

Here in the Philippines, there are a lot of families that do not stay together. More often the father or the mother or sometimes both, live far from their children due to economic reasons. A lot of these parents even work overseas or work in the city so that they could send money back to their family members for expenses.

One proof would be at the airport, when one can see so many families saying goodbye to their Delsey luggage carrying loved ones who will go overseas to work.

One can also see Filipino families eagerly awaiting a relative, a Filipino Overseas Worker (OFW) hauling a big and heavy Balikbayan box full of goodies for family members.

Ironic but they leave behind their children and/or their parents, to care for the children and parents of other people as nurses, caregivers, domestic helpers and even teachers like me.

I too have plans of leaving the country to search for greener pastures so to speak. I am still weighing my options but there are good offers for teachers like me to bring my family where I am qualified to work.

For now, my husband and I savour the wonderful times that we are able to spend with our family.

The children may have squabbles at times, or we may be too tired to listen to each child who wants to tell us something, but at the end of the day, we are able to thank God that we are still together and that no matter what happens, we love each other. That is all that really matters, isn’t it?

This entry was posted on Friday, October 17th, 2008 at 7:25 pm and is filed under Information, Lessons in Life, My Family, Philippines, Photo Hunters, Snapshots. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0 feed. You can leave a response, or trackback from your own site.

18 Oct, 2008 @ 2:47 am
Pat said:

Oh what a great family post!! :-)

Have a great weekend.

18 Oct, 2008 @ 8:56 am
Carver said:

Excellent post Julie. You did a great job discussing family and the challenges. I also love the photographs you chose too.

18 Oct, 2008 @ 9:04 am
Annie said:

Julie, this is such a wise and wonderful post. And you are so right that in the end, it’s our heart connections that really matter. Love your message and your photos!

18 Oct, 2008 @ 10:21 am
Leslie said:

Great narration Julie! Love your photos.

18 Oct, 2008 @ 10:34 am

Great post and pics this week. :)

18 Oct, 2008 @ 11:36 am
heartbeats said:

hello, happy hunting… mine is up!

18 Oct, 2008 @ 11:52 am

This is a beautiful post Julie. I agree, family goes beyond blood ties. Significant people in our lives are worth calling family.

18 Oct, 2008 @ 1:28 pm
jmb said:

It is very sad when people have to leave their families for economic reasons. I always feel sorry when I take a cruise for the wonderful people who provide such wonderful cheerful service even though they are away from family for a year at a time.
Good luck with your decision. Both my husband and I ended in another country from all our family. We made a new family of close friends.

18 Oct, 2008 @ 1:28 pm

great post for the theme. A really nice sentiment.
Happy weekend.

18 Oct, 2008 @ 1:42 pm

we all work hard to be w/ our loved ones don’t we I love seeing the families and the love they represent

18 Oct, 2008 @ 2:17 pm
Mar said:

You always publish such thoughtful and profound posts, Julie. Love your shots too!
Happy hunting and happy weekend !

18 Oct, 2008 @ 3:27 pm

A very thoughtful post. Sadly there are so many who have to leave their native countries to obtain a better life.

Happy weekend

18 Oct, 2008 @ 5:42 pm

We do everything for our families, do we. Happy weekend!

18 Oct, 2008 @ 9:23 pm

hi teach! i hope your dream of working abroad comes true. dito sa texas ha! :D happy weekend! miss na kita! hindi tayo nagaabot sa plurk. :D

Cafe Munchkin: Family
Mapped Memories: Family

19 Oct, 2008 @ 3:11 am
Randi said:

I love your message and your lovely photos!
Have a great weekend!

19 Oct, 2008 @ 12:34 pm
sah said:

you know, i never really realized how much my family meant to me until i gave birth. now, i miss them even though i see them every weekend.

19 Oct, 2008 @ 4:04 pm

lovely shots! and yeah its sad that we have to leave our loved ones sometimes just to be able to find a better paying job than stay here in the country. but its good that things like that bonds family more than break.

20 Oct, 2008 @ 10:36 am
AniqueAnik said:

very well said.nice entry God bless your family.:)

20 Oct, 2008 @ 8:45 pm
Sue said:

Excellent post for the family theme my friend!

5 Jan, 2009 @ 5:39 pm
julie said:

Thank you, Pat :)

5 Jan, 2009 @ 5:47 pm
julie said:

Thank you Carver :)

5 Jan, 2009 @ 5:51 pm
julie said:

Thank you, Annie :)

5 Jan, 2009 @ 5:53 pm
julie said:

Thank you, Leslie :)

5 Jan, 2009 @ 5:56 pm
julie said:

Thanks, Leslie :)

5 Jan, 2009 @ 6:02 pm
julie said:

Thanks, Rachel :)

5 Jan, 2009 @ 6:05 pm
julie said:

Oh yes, a lot of those cruise crews and Filipinos, along with so many seafarers in big ships.

Filipinos are generally happy people so its not effortless to seem happy even if we are hurting inside.

5 Jan, 2009 @ 6:34 pm
julie said:

Thanks, Corey :)

5 Jan, 2009 @ 7:09 pm
julie said:

I agree, even of families are far apart and working hard to provide for each other’s needs :)

5 Jan, 2009 @ 7:11 pm
julie said:

Thank you, Mar :)

5 Jan, 2009 @ 7:14 pm
julie said:

I agree, millions of Filipinos work overseas leaving their families behind.

5 Jan, 2009 @ 7:20 pm
julie said:

yes, including making extreme sacrifices for them :)

5 Jan, 2009 @ 7:24 pm
julie said:

Naku, its a work in progress, Weng, but with the way the economy is going in the US, dito na lang muna kaya ako? (scratches head)

5 Jan, 2009 @ 7:29 pm
julie said:

Thanks, Randi :)

5 Jan, 2009 @ 7:37 pm
julie said:

When we have children, our priorities change :)

5 Jan, 2009 @ 7:57 pm
julie said:

Yes, but its better if just one of the parents leave than both of them

5 Jan, 2009 @ 8:11 pm
julie said:

Thanks :)

5 Jan, 2009 @ 8:12 pm
julie said:

Thanks Sue :)

11 May, 2009 @ 7:53 pm

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